top of page

writing romance

writingtiips

there are a few topics you can (and should!) consider when writing romance. these include, but aren't limited to:

  • genuine relationships

  • attraction

  • conflict

  • physical reactions

  • verbal reactions

  • tropes


as a general rule, romance should feel genuine enough to feel replicable. although it doesn't need to be set in a modern or realistic context, readers should still be able to associate with their own experiences and perception of romance.


as such, it's important to consider how your two characters meet, and their reactions. if they instantly fall in love, with no challenges, you're likely going to end up with not only a boring romance, but a boring plot. part of what makes a story genuine is the challenges characters face, and hopefully overcome!


romance interactions shouldn't feel forced, or faked. they'll be awkward moments, and moments of conflict - just like in real life!


although your characters might not have the love at first sight moment, there's often a noticeable spark right from the beginning between two characters. it might be disguised as another emotion, ignored, or not recognised, but it’ll still be there! some possible causes of attraction include:


  • sexual (physical)

  • personality (humour, kindness)

  • intelligence/job

  • social status


the initial attraction between your characters and their subsequent reactions depends heavily on the plot of your novel! in an enemies to lovers, two characters reactions to their feelings will be very different to a friends to lovers.


if you've read a lot of romance, you might notice a slight theme around 3/4 of the way through a book. nearly every novel has a third act breakup - which some people love/hate! this is where just before your characters get their happy ending, a huge event occurs, stopping them from doing so.


as a general rule, a minor conflict should occur halfway through the novel, and then the major conflict 3/4 of the way through. it's often so major it seems irreversible!


even if you choose not to have a third act breakup, remember to still include some form of conflict. unfortunately, it's unrealistic for everything to go perfectly - and it's even slightly boring when it does!


physical reactions are one of the most obvious signs of romantic interest - and chances are, you've included them in your novel without realising! they're pretty essential when writing, they show how your characters react to a scenario, and give insight into how they feel.


often, you'll notice the main reaction authors use is blushing! while people do blush, there are many other - more interesting - ways to show interest, such as:


  • maintaining eye contact

  • sweating/sweaty palms

  • fidgeting with fingers

  • rocking back onto heels

  • averting eye contact

  • leaning forward/towards the other character

  • eyes widening

  • lips parting


as well as physical reactions, including verbal reactions can be a great way to deepen the genuineness of your novel! there are many ways in which a character's vocals can change, whether purposeful or involuntary.


just like how blushing is a common physical reaction in novels, stuttering is a common verbal reaction! however it can be overdone, negatively impacting your work. instead, try other indicators such as:


  • stumbling over words

  • speechlessness

  • changing the topic suddenly

  • changing the pitch of voice

  • coughing/clearing throat


and lastly, if you've run out of ideas for your plot, you can always fill a gap with some popular tropes/sub-tropes! these are also great if you want to do some short writing practice to get over writers block.


popular tropes:

  • enemies to lovers

  • friends to lovers

  • love triangle

  • soulmates

  • fake dating

  • secret billionaire/singer/actor

  • grumpy x sunshine

  • roommates


popular subtropes:

  • one bedroom

  • hurt comfort

  • coffee shop

23 views

Recent Posts

See All

12 literary archetypes

an archetype is a typical example of a person, thing, or emotion. in literary terms, it's a character or event who your characters...

3 stages of editing

macro edits the first stage of editing is the biggest - with a focus on general flow, rather than specifics! also known as structural or...

traditional vs self publishing

traditional publishing is the most common form of publishing, and is often what most writers aim for. you submit your manuscript to an...

コメント


bottom of page